NATHAN SERRATO
Queer Mindset Coach,PCC (Trauma-Informed)
Nathan Serrato is a PCC Accredited Relationship Coach specializing in helping LGBTQ+ people break free from the shame, guardedness, and fear of intimacy holding them back from the relationships they truly want. With nearly a decade of experience in the LGBTQ+ space, he brings proven strategies for finding compatible partners in modern dating and maintaining them through specialized communication and conflict resolution skills. His unique integration of breathwork and Somatic Coaching helps clients overcome deeply rooted patterns, rebuild confidence, and show up authentically in their relationships.Nathan's approach goes beyond traditional relationship coaching because he understands that many queer people grow up experiencing rejection from family, faith communities, and society at large. Over time, those early experiences wire the nervous system to associate love with danger, vulnerability with loss, and intimacy with risk.
His work creates a safe and structured space to rewire those patterns and replace them with the skills and confidence needed to build lasting, fulfilling relationships.
That understanding comes from lived experience. Nathan's own journey through shame and the longing for real connection led him to somatic healing, breathwork, and coaching, and ultimately to his calling. In 2018 he founded Queer Conscious, a San Diego-based community and coaching resource dedicated to the personal and relational growth of all queer individuals, because he believed queer people deserved more than survival. They deserve fulfilling relationships and the freedom to live authentically on their own terms.
Nathan is accredited as a PCC Coach through the International Coach Federation and is certified as a Yoga & Breathwork Instructor, Somatic Coach, and Conflict Resolution Specialist. He is based in San Diego, CA and works with clients across the country. If you are ready to stop shrinking and start building the relationships you deserve, schedule a free Strategy Call today.
Musician
Jonathan G.
"I've noticed a complete shift in how I show up for myself and others. I've felt my normal reactionary thinking appear and then pass without attachment or drama. I feel a sense of safety and clarity in decision making and interactions. I can also hold space for other people's world views and advocate for myself appropriately which has allowed for easier connections. I am so grateful for the support and sacred space."
Blog Writer
Adam A.
"I've let go of old stories and have found myself cultivating deeper relationships. I have discovered now thought patterns and beliefs about myself that has given me more confidence to practice self-care and self-regulation. I've also been able to share my adoption story through my blog from a place of love and empowerment. So much respect for Nathan's work."
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Professional
Jonathan R.
Nathan’s extraordinary acumen in the space of coaching and trauma recovery has been instrumental in patiently and courageously building a positive relationship with myself, which in turn is helping me powerful relationships in the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. The coaching modalities are so effective at identifying blind spots that ultimately helped develop effective probing communication techniques that foster true intimacy. The future is incredibly bright thanks to Nathan!"