HEALTHY QUEER LOVE IS BUILT, NOT FOUND
I'm Nathan — Queer Love Coach, communication expert, and a committed believer that real connection is still possible in a world that often teaches us to guard, ghost, and glamorize disconnection.
Whether you're navigating first dates or the deep waters of long-term commitment, I'm here to help you build relationships that feel safe, solid, and nourishing.
DATING COACHING
If you’re tired of the same old patterns — ghosting, games, guarded hearts — you’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
You’re not asking for too much.
You just haven’t had the right tools — yet.
Dating coaching is for you if you're ready to:
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Build real self-trust and confidence in your dating choices
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Break free from unhealthy patterns and magnetic attraction to “red flags”
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Get clear on compatibility (not just chemistry)
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Feel way more motivated and optimistic about love than you do right now
Dating isn't about performing or chasing.
It's about becoming someone who feels so good in their own skin that love has no choice but to recognize you.
Ready to stop chasing, and start attracting?
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...
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Juan
"Nathan's gay dating and relationship course challenged me to get more clear about what I want and don't want in a relationship.
It helped me go beyond the myth of the 'perfect partner' to help me understand that it begins with me.
I enjoyed Nathan's approach of inviting the group to sit with tough, important questions together.
It was a validating experience and I'd highly recommend it to anyone who feels even a little lost when it comes to dating in today's world."
Neil D.
"Taking Nathan's dating course changed so everything for me! I got really clear on what I wanted, learned to spot red flags and incompatibilities, and, most importantly, started valuing myself more. The class information helped me to understand my preferences, improve my communication skills, and find a dating strategy that worked for me. But it was the one-on-one somatic work that helped me to relieve my anxious attachment and find patience and confidence in my dating journey.
That confidence also impacted my professional life with a promotion! Nathan's way of teaching and holding space helped me gain deeper self-awareness and has totally transformed how I approach dating, relationships, and my life."
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Katrina L.
"Coaching with Nathan has been incredible! He has helped me to have a clearer sense of my own worth and value myself more, I know how to handle my own emotions deftly and with more care. And I know how to communicate with those around me when I am feeling big feelings and if they can help me. I learned so much about the stories I internalized from my childhood and how they are showing up today.
With that knowledge I am able to gift myself the grace I need and I feel so much more at peace with myself. I feel elevated, I have more freedom, more trust in myself and would 100% encourage anyone considering working with Nathan to take the leap. You won't regret it."
RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Dare to be Seen, Dare to be Loved.
Already found someone special? Amazing.
Now the real work — and the real magic — begins.
If you're experiencing challenges, the truth is:
Connection doesn’t die overnight.
It erodes through small, unspoken resentments, misunderstandings, and emotional disconnection.
Relationship Coaching will help you:
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Communicate openly and compassionately (even through conflict)
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Create emotional safety, intimacy, and trust
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Navigate tough conversations without losing connection
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Keep passion, growth, and partnership alive over time
Conflict isn’t a threat to love.
It’s an opportunity to deepen it — if you know how.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...
When my wife and I found Nathan, we were at a point where bickering had become more frequent than we would like. From the very first session, his warmth, humor, and genuine nature put us both at ease.
He turned what felt like constant friction into an opportunity for curiosity and connection. We learned how to pause, investigate, and truly hear what the other person needed. Beyond the practical tools, Nathan’s personality made the whole process fun. We often left feeling not just more connected as a couple but also more confident as individuals.
Thanks to Nathan, we’ve come out of this journey with a stronger relationship and a deeper appreciation for each other. We can’t recommend him enough—he’s not just a coach; he’s a game-changer.
Lindsey and Cecelia
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BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS FROM THE INSIDE OUT
Here’s what I teach:
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Communication Mastery: Conflict is a privilege. I'll help you approach it with proven communication techniques designed to bring people closer.
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Nervous System Regulation: Emotional safety is the foundation for real intimacy. We'll rewire your ability to stay open even when things feel vulnerable.
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Authenticity & Self-Expression: Fulfilled people create fulfilling relationships. You'll reconnect with your true, glorious self so you can show up fully with your partner.
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Healing Emotional Roots: Together, we’ll confront the shame, dissociation, and fear that keep so many LGBTQ+ people stuck in cycles of loneliness or performative love.
You don’t need to become someone "better" to deserve love. You just need to get more comfortable being you.
Ready to Transform Your Love Life?
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...
Eric N.
"I didn't realize how much pressure I had been putting on myself prior to working with Nathan. I had been carrying a great deal of anxiety and struggling to trust again after a painful & unexpected divorce, which left me angry and feeling disconnected.
The somatic work Nathan and I did together allowed me release the wall of anger and distrust I’d been holding onto the past 5 years —some of which came from early childhood and dealing with my own parents' divorce at the age of 5. Now, I feel much more empowered and ready to approach relationships again with an open heart & mind, only this time, I’m more connected to who I am and what’s important to me. If you’re hesitant about coaching, I can honestly say that working with Nathan has been life-changing."
Aaron W.
"Best money I've ever spent! After grappling with personal family tragedies and adjusting to life back home after living overseas - I found myself at a crossroads. I had been carrying around unhealthy patterns and habits from my past. Despite the support I received from therapists over the years, there was a depth to Nathan's approach that made a real difference. Friends and family often ask how I'm doing so well despite everything I've faced in recent years.
Thanks to Nathan, today, I'm celebrating milestones like six months of sobriety, flourishing in my professional life, and cherishing a deep, committed relationship with my soon-to-be husband."
Cheryl S.
"I was hesitant if this process would work for me. With Nathan's guidance I felt empowered to handle life's challenges with newfound resilience.
My relationships have flourished thanks to improved boundaries and a healthier mindset. But the change didn't stop there—with medical approval, I even managed to reduce my antidepressant medications.
I now move through the world with a lighter step and a more joyful heart. I couldn't recommend him more highly."