
Healthy Queer Love Is Built, Not Found.
​I'm Nathan — Queer Love Coach, communication expert, and a committed believer that real connection is still possible in a world that often teaches us to guard, ghost, and glamorize disconnection.
Whether you're navigating first dates or the deep waters of long-term commitment, I'm here to help you build relationships that feel safe, solid, and nourishing.


DATING
If you’re tired of the same old patterns — ghosting, games, guarded hearts — you’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
You’re not asking for too much.
You just haven’t had the right tools — yet.
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Dating coaching is for you if you're ready to:
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Build real self-trust and confidence in your dating choices
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Break free from unhealthy patterns and magnetic attraction to “red flags”
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Get clear on compatibility (not just chemistry)
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Feel way more motivated and optimistic about love than you do right now
Dating isn't about performing or chasing.
It's about becoming someone who feels so good in their own skin that love has no choice but to recognize you.
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Ready to stop chasing, and start attracting?
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...


RELATIONSHIPS
Dare to be Seen, Dare to be Loved.
Already found someone special? Amazing.
Now the real work — and the real magic — begins.
If you're experiencing challenges, the truth is:
Connection doesn’t die overnight.
It erodes through small, unspoken resentments, misunderstandings, and emotional disconnection.
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Relationship Coaching will help you:
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Communicate openly and compassionately (even through conflict)
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Create emotional safety, intimacy, and trust
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Navigate tough conversations without losing connection
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Keep passion, growth, and partnership alive over time
Conflict isn’t a threat to love.
It’s an opportunity to deepen it — if you know how.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING...

When my wife and I found Nathan, we were at a point where bickering had become more frequent than we would like. From the very first session, his warmth, humor, and genuine nature put us both at ease.
He turned what felt like constant friction into an opportunity for curiosity and connection. We learned how to pause, investigate, and truly hear what the other person needed. Beyond the practical tools, Nathan’s personality made the whole process fun. We often left feeling not just more connected as a couple but also more confident as individuals.
Thanks to Nathan, we’ve come out of this journey with a stronger relationship and a deeper appreciation for each other. We can’t recommend him enough—he’s not just a coach; he’s a game-changer.
Lindsey and Cecelia
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Building Relationships From the Inside Out
Here’s what I teach:
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Communication Mastery: Conflict is a privilege. I'll help you approach it with proven communication techniques designed to bring people closer.
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Nervous System Regulation: Emotional safety is the foundation for real intimacy. We'll rewire your ability to stay open even when things feel vulnerable.
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Authenticity & Self-Expression: Fulfilled people create fulfilling relationships. You'll reconnect with your true, glorious self so you can show up fully with your partner.
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Healing Emotional Roots: Together, we’ll confront the shame, dissociation, and fear that keep so many LGBTQ+ people stuck in cycles of loneliness or performative love.
You don’t need to become someone "better" to deserve love. You just need to get more comfortable being you.
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Ready to Transform Your Love Life?